Are You Seeking Advice or Agreement?

“I will praise the Lord who counsels me–even at night my heart instructs me.” (Psalm 16:7 NIV).

Who do you go to for advice? Family? Friends? What if the advice they give you is not what you want to hear? What do you do then? Truth be known, most of us don’t look for “advice” we want agreement. We want someone to tell us exactly what we want to hear.

The story is told of a little monkey who desperately wanted to go swimming in a forbidden lake. He had seen the lake from a distant, and its waters looked cool and inviting in that hot-humid climate, and its setting was serene. But he had heard stories about that lake and he wasn’t quite sure.

He went to the owl, who told him, “Cotton. You can’t swim in that lake! There are crocodiles there and they are sure to eat you!”

“Crocodiles? What’s a crocodile?” asked the little monkey.

“Crocodiles are huge amphibious reptiles. They have thick skin, huge teeth, strong jaws and they just love to eat little monkeys!” The Owl answered.

Cotton went away concerned, but undeterred. He wondered, “Do crocodiles really exist, or is the Owl trying to keep me from having fun?”

He went to a friend, a Baboon, and asked him about that lake. The Baboon told Cotton, “Cotton, you cannot go to that lake. There are crocodiles there and they will surely eat you!” “Ha! responded a nervous Cotton, “You are just trying to scare me! Crocodiles do not exist!” And off the little monkey scampered.

Animal after animal warned Cotton of the danger until he came to the Hyena. “Mr. Hyena,” Cotton queried, “Do crocodiles exist? I want to swim in Forbidden Lake, but everyone tells me a crocodile might eat me!”

“Hogwash!” the Hyena replied with a grin. “There are no such animals as crocodiles! That’s a story made up to keep little monkeys like you from having fun!”

“I knew it!” shrieked Cotton with delight. “Crocodiles do not exist! Crocodiles do not exist!” And off he swung through the trees, heading with delight and full abandoned to that inviting lake.

Cotton swam in that lake. He jumped from trees, did, back-strokes, enjoyed the cool water, confident that the hyena had steered him right. Suddenly there was a splash. An instant later the crocodile swam contentedly away saying, “Cotton the monkey does not exist.”

This is not my usual devotional. But the story makes a point. God gives us clear advice in His Word, through His people, and in our hearts. He is the wonderful counselor who will never steer us wrong, yet how often do we persist in wanting to have things our way. Wanting to hear only what we want to hear so that we can do what we want to do? I promise you, based on the authority of God’s Word, such thinking will get you into trouble! Such thinking will end in disaster.

Listen to God and don’t seek “further clarification” from those who do not know Him.